Trust and stop waiting

I was being nosy,as usual,on facebook when i found his profile.THAT i didn't mind.
He still looks good.THAT part didn't even make my heart flutter.
His arm is broken.THAT didn't even bother me.
He's engaged.THAT knocked the wind outta me.(like literally when someone punches you in the stomache).

I mean seriously,WTF! Here's what i can truly say,i wasn't heartbroken,i was just surprised.Nor was i happy,i was really sad. Surprisingly i am also mad.Not at him,i do wish him the best,and I'm sorta glad that he found THE one,but why him and not me?

I am absolutely aware that i am sounding selfish.I just cant help thinking that i was the one with the broken heart for a long time.I am a good person that good men fall for.yet,he is ENGAGED,and i am alone.hmm...maybe the status of being "alone" can easily be changed,but what about being "lonely"?

Right now,C is trying to give me a whole future scenario about his life where "his wife will be fat,he'll have an average life and he'll never forget me while I'll be strutting my expensive heels with a husband 100 times better than he would have been".hehehe,i do love this girl.

I don't really wanna be married right now,that i know for a fact.And i really would rather be the way i am-difficult to fall in love- than to love just anybody.I guess I'll just have to trust..not wait.i'm sick of waiting,i have a life to live and its the only one i'm getting (i'm not THAT special).God has shown me recently that patience is indeed a virtue,and it does pay off eventually...that's when air comes into your lungs again,and life begins.